If you love yourself in a certain condition, in a certain state, then it is only logical that you love yourself less or no more after an unwanted loss of the beloved state. More specifically: If you love certain characteristics of yourself, or if you love yourself because of these certain characteristics, then you can no longer love yourself if you lose these characteristics. If you love yourself, no matter how you are, what you are, who or what is changed and how, then love is meaningless. If you love something, you cannot love the opposite of it.